How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
13.06.2025 00:39
Eating Candy
Skipping Work
Being Argumentative
Take your hat off when you enter the house.
Talking To Yourself
Arranging Instead of Cleaning
Whining
Put down
Not Moisturizing
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Not being sexist or racist.
When someone spy on me for no good reason.
Interrupting Someone
Not Flossing
Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”
Sleeping With Makeup
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Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.
Laughed at
To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.
Pencil Chewing
Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
Online Surfing In Class
What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?
Monopolizing A Conversation
Sitting Too Close To The T.V
Masturbating
While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.
Not staring at strangers in public.
Drinking Soda/Pop
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Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.
Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.
Snacking
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When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.
Don't talk back.
Assaulted
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Eating Meat
Gaming In Class
Use thankyou as often as you can.
When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.
This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .
Watching T.V Right After Work
Fiddling With Your Hair
Squashed
Deprived
Skipping Breakfast
Emotional Shopping
Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.
Coming to close to my face .
In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.
Chewing Tobacco
Hair Pulling
Overeating
Learn how to grill well.
How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
Popping Zits
Hacking my Facebook account.
Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone
Chewing Gum
According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.
Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.
Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.
Oppressed
To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.
When someone bother me for no good reason.
You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well…
Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad
Chewing With Mouth Open
While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.
Yelling At Your BF/GF
They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.
Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
Drinking Coffee
Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””…
If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.
If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”
Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.
After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
Taking responsibility for actions.
Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.
Chewing On Your Hair
Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.
Not Doing Your Homework
When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.
Eating Past 8 P.M
Speaking With Your Mouth Full
Don't get jealous of anyone.
Do not move hands while speaking.
Crushed
Damaged
Use polite words.
Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails
Use and abuse me.
Disrespected
Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.
Porn Watching
Pinching Pennies
Eating White Sugar
Blocking my way .
Thumb Sucking
Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.
Always chew with your mouth closed.
Persecuted
Not texting while you are talking to someone.
Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.
They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.
Manners maketh the man.
Over Medicating
Eating Chocolate
You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.
Always hold the door open for others.
If someone cuts off my basic needs .
Agonized
What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?
It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.
Play with passion or don’t play at all.
Being Overly Critical
Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.
Picking Fights
But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .
Restrict my freedoms.
Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.
Spying on my private conversations.
Rambling
An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.
If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.
Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.
Gossiping
If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.
Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.
Drinking From The Carton
When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.
Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .
Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.
Skipping Class
Using Slang
Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back
Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.
Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.
Intimidated
Belching
Ignored
Loitering
You’re never too old to learn something new.
It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.
You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.
Eating Fast Food
Hypocrisy of poeple.
All Work And No Play
Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.
Eating When You Are Bored
Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.
Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.
And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.
Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
Say sorry whenever necessary.
Nibbling While Cooking
Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.
Dragging me into fights arguments.
While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.
Day Dreaming
Never turn down a breath mint.
Finishing People’s Sentences
Saying “Yes” To Everything
YouTube
If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.
Picking Scabs
Humiliated
Leaving The Toilet Seat Up
Drinking Energy Drinks
Not interrupting people when they are talking.
When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.
Kissing & Telling
Skipping Meals
Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism
Trolling Comments
Pained
While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.
When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.
Not Showering
Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.
Wash your handa before eating.
While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.
Bullying People
Take advantage of me .
Always protect your siblings (and teammates).
Losing Focus
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
Going To The Club
Using Your Maiden Name
Buzz-friggin’-feed
Devalued
Not Holding Eye Contact
Watching Reality Television
Make your bed.
When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.
Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.
If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.
Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.
Procrastinating
Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.
Tormented
Defeated
When a man sexually touch.
Invasion of privacy and space.
Tortured
To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.
Open the car door for your passenger.
Breaking Promises To Yourself
Horking
Annoying People On Purpose
Insulted
Screwed
Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.
Licking Your Fingers
Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .
Exaggerating
Bragging
Damaging my good work record.
Speeding
Humming To Yourself
Respect people regardless of their job.
Talking to me loudly.
Falling Asleep In Class
When someone threat me when I am innocent.
Cheated
If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.
Abused
They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.
Do not try to listen to two persons talk.
Ridiculed
Offended
.
Flaking Out
Return things within time.
Bushwhacked
Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.
Forgetting Names Of People You Meet
One-Upping
In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.
Being Unfriendly
Rebuffed
Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.
Bleeding
Respect your teachers….who always force us to the next level.
Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)
Littering (really, stop littering)
Being Late
Watching Seinfeld Reruns
Biting Your Pen
Eat lunch with the new kid.
Write down your dreams.
Talking During Movies
When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.
Using Devices At Night
In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.
When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.
Licking Your Lips
Opening Countless Tabs
Losing Your Temper
Burned
Conning me , ripping me off .
Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)
Do not appreciate my hard work and help.
Lying
Slouching While Walking
When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.
Dejected
When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .
When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.
In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.
Complaining
Forgotten
Using Your Phone In Bed
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
Playing Kingdom Rush
Don't touch others while speaking.
Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun
Ask if you can help.
Fiddling With Keys
Binge Watching Netflix
Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.
Interpreting my conversation.
Brutalized
Name Dropping
Not Brushing Your Teeth
Cheek Biting
Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.
Emotional Eating
Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .
Poor Hygiene
Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .
Speak politely amd softly.
Heart-broken
Wronged
Aching
Victimized
Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.
Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .
Drinking Tea
Being a polite driver.
Giving Away “Tells” In Poker
Fidgeting
Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.
Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.
According to Google:
You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.
Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.
Staying Up Late
Snubbed
Hoarding
Rejected
Don't shake hands with wet hands.
Be confident and humble at the same time.
Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.
If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.
Afflicted
Quora
Biting Your Lips
If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.
Forgetting To Shave
The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.
Telling Secrets
Excessive Throat Clearing
Scratching An Itch
Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?
If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .
One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.
The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .
Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing
Being An Attention Hog
Spending Too Much Time Online
Blamed
Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.
Popping Gum
Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .
Skin Picking
Share food.
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When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.
Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.
Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.
Cracking Your Knuckles
Impersonating me.
You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.
Celling bangs and squeaky floors.
Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.
Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them
While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.
Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.
Always speak the truth.
If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .
Betrayed
Plotted against me .
When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.
Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .
Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.
Give credit.
In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.
When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.
When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .
What are some bad habits we all have?
Eating Cookies Every Damn Day
Skipping The Gym
Picking Your Nose
Gambling
Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.
Biting Fingernails
Deflated
If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.
Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.
When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.
Eating Dairy
Overspending
Abased
Injured
Eavesdropping
Grinding Your Teeth
Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.
Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out
Spread positivity
Invalidated
When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.
What are some proper manners for everyday life?
Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:
Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.
Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.
Shoplifting
And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.
Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.
Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.
Psychology, law and ethics
Copying
Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.
m&m’s
Kouhan Fatah
Video Games
Excessive Salt
Eating Gluten
Spending On Credit Cards
Spitting
Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.
Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails
Punched
Don't hurt your parents.
The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.
When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.
Freeloading
Do not wink a lot while conversing.
Picking Your Teeth In Public
Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .
When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.
Talking In Class
A sport coat is worth a thousand words.
Jilted
Blocking my vision.
Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.
When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.
Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New
Repeating Yourself
Leaving The Fridge Open
While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.
Neglected
Being A Know-It-All
Diminished
Borrowing And Not Returning Items
D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.
Try to stand when greeting.
Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places
Always say thank you and write a thank you note.
There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.
Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
You marry the girl, you marry her family.
Sleeping-in
When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.
Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.
Invisible
Annihilated
Chastised
Slighted
Slouching At The Computer
Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.